I've learned..

*I’ve learned…That when you’re in love, it shows.

*I’ve learned…That just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.

*I’ve learned…That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

*I’ve learned…That being kind is more important than being right.

*I’ve learned…That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

*I’ve learned…That I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.

*I’ve learned…That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

*I’ve learned…That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

*I’ve learned…That simple walks with my father on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

*I’ve learned…That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

*I’ve learned…That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

*I’ve learned…That money doesn’t buy class.

*I’ve learned…That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

*I’ve learned…That under everyone’s hard shell there is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

*I’ve learned…That the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?

*I’ve learned…That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

*I’ve learned…That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

*I’ve learned…That love, not time, heals all wounds.

*I’ve learned…That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

*I’ve learned…That there’s nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.

*I’ve learned…That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

*I’ve learned…That life is tough, but I’m tougher.

*I’ve learned…That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

*I’ve learned…That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

*I’ve learned…That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

*I’ve learned…That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

*I’ve learned…That I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

*I’ve learned…That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.

*I’ve learned …That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.

*I’ve learned…That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

I've learned..

*I’ve learned…That when you’re in love, it shows.

*I’ve learned…That just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.

*I’ve learned…That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

*I’ve learned…That being kind is more important than being right.

*I’ve learned…That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

*I’ve learned…That I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.

*I’ve learned…That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

*I’ve learned…That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

*I’ve learned…That simple walks with my father on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

*I’ve learned…That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

*I’ve learned…That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

*I’ve learned…That money doesn’t buy class.

*I’ve learned…That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

*I’ve learned…That under everyone’s hard shell there is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

*I’ve learned…That the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?

*I’ve learned…That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

*I’ve learned…That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

*I’ve learned…That love, not time, heals all wounds.

*I’ve learned…That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

*I’ve learned…That there’s nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.

*I’ve learned…That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

*I’ve learned…That life is tough, but I’m tougher.

*I’ve learned…That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

*I’ve learned…That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

*I’ve learned…That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

*I’ve learned…That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

*I’ve learned…That I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

*I’ve learned…That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.

*I’ve learned …That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.

*I’ve learned…That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

Zombie family

I found this cool app on my phone that turns us into zombies.. it's really cool.

Zombie family

I found this cool app on my phone that turns us into zombies.. it's really cool.

Family is everything...

On Saturday November 5th, 2011 I finally got to meet Steve's dad.  Since the day I met Steve him and his dad had some disagreements and were not talking.  They have recently resolved their problems and I am very happy for Steve that he is talking to his dad again.  I know this has bothered him a lot and I very happy I finally got the chance to meet him.  It was a great visit and I look forward to getting to know him more. In the three years we have been together I have never met his dad only heard about him,  I feel like another chapter has been closed and we are getting more and more complete.  I really wish his mom was still around from what I hear from Steve she was an amazing woman. As I get older I realize more and more how much family really means.. family is everything to me and I love my family.

I plan to keep my family close to my heart forever!!  :)

Family is everything...

On Saturday November 5th, 2011 I finally got to meet Steve's dad.  Since the day I met Steve him and his dad had some disagreements and were not talking.  They have recently resolved their problems and I am very happy for Steve that he is talking to his dad again.  I know this has bothered him a lot and I very happy I finally got the chance to meet him.  It was a great visit and I look forward to getting to know him more. In the three years we have been together I have never met his dad only heard about him,  I feel like another chapter has been closed and we are getting more and more complete.  I really wish his mom was still around from what I hear from Steve she was an amazing woman. As I get older I realize more and more how much family really means.. family is everything to me and I love my family.

I plan to keep my family close to my heart forever!!  :)

The day I married ...

On November 1st, 2011 I married my best friend, my lover of 3 years.  It seemed like forever for the day to arrive.  I woke up on Tuesday morning and had a meeting with a good friend of mine to get our nails and hair done.  My nerves were getting the best of me. My friend of many years Sara and I went to the salon and started getting pampered and ready for my BIG day,  I started reminiscing and telling Sara all about how and when he proposed .. He took me to a Rascal Flats concert front row seats YEAH! I was so excited I had never been to a concert with front row seats.  Half way through the concert Rascal Flats lead singer comes out onto stage and says they have a special message they want to share on their big screens and on the screens in his own handwriting it read "Judi will you marry me? Love your fragile man. I couldn't believe my eyes,  I just started crying, The lead singer handed the microphone down to Steve and he asked me again as he got down on his knees and pulled out a beautiful yet simple diamond ring and I said yes, YES!  Then Rascal Flats says this song is dedicated to Steve and Judi, congrats on your engagement. And they sang "God Bless The Broken Road."   I was so happy I couldn't stop smiling. After the song was over the lead singer of the band says we have one more surprise,  Steve wanted to share this special moment with your family and on the screen was my mom, and sisters.. I just started crying. I couldn't believe it.   Sara was all smiles too as I finished the story, she said you have a great man you are marrying today. My girls also got there hair done up all pretty.. they were not in the wedding but they got to be in nice dresses and got their nails and hair done.

After we were all dolled up and ready for my big day Sara and I headed to the beach, I have always dreamed of getting married on the beach .. barefoot.  We got married in Morro Bay, Ca on the beautiful sandy beach.. in a white wedding gown that hung off my shoulders and was fitted all the way down to my knees then flowed out with a gorgeous long train. My hair was done mostly up with beautiful curls falling on my freckly shoulders.  My one and only maid of honor wore a beautiful teal and brown gown that matched the best mans shirt and slacks.  The warm sand between my bare feet was so nice it almost took away all my nerves. My bouquet was just beautiful, had a mixture of flowers. Bright and beautiful flowers.  The groom looked fantastic, he was wearing black slacks and a white button up with a teal tie to match the party., of course we were all barefoot.  My Dad looked sharp in his khaki slacks and Hawaiin shirt. As he walked me down the aisle my eyes locked on my soon to be husband and I had to fight back tears, my Dad handed my hand over to my soon to be husband and kissed my cheek. Steve lips the words, you look absolutely beautiful. I smile and lip back "thank you:" We had our own vows, I only remember part of them "I promise to love you in good times and in bad, when life seems easy and when it seems hard, when our love is simple, and when it is an effort. I promise to cherish you, and to always hold you in highest regard."
... I pronounce you husband and wife,  you may now kiss the bride.

And we walked away hand in hand as a married couple...

IT WAS ONLY JUST A DREAM!!!  A very vivid dream at that..... wow!