The girls get to see their father once a week unless he cancels because he has some other plans. So he drives up here and picks them up from school and takes them to dinner and does their homework and then takes them out to a park or whatever they do. Yea well he always makes it a point to feed them as much sugar as possible. He isn't hurting me, he is hurting them. They come home and they have a REALLY hard time going to sleep and go to bed really late and have to get up and go to school in the morning and they struggle to get up in the morning and function. So I have discussed this with him and that is like talking to a brick wall. He is just stupid as they come. Grrrrrr
He took them to dinner tonight and then took them to get an ice cream and they also came home with candy that they had just finished, I literally had to peel them off the ceiling. My children very rarely get candy so they were amped up like no other. I wish he was more responsible. Its so sad! He just wants to be the "weekend dad" and give them everything they want, so he is the one who looks better to them. Well in the long run when they get older they will see what he is doing and realize that he is fake.
Then he has the nerve to ask me if he can have them for 3 days while they are on Spring break. HA! Right... He argued with me that the court order states they are to be with him the first half of Spring break. Yes it sure does, BUT it also states after he gets his own place to live. Sooo he is pissed off cause the girls can't spend the night with him. He will get over it. I am not comfortable with the living arrangements and that is why he only sees them once a week and gets no overnights. When is he gonna realize that he needs to pull his head out of his butt and be a man and not live with his girlfriends mom and dad and his mom? IDK I guess he is doing me a favor by staying there and that is that I dont have to worry about my girls being with him. So that is a good thing.
I keep hoping one day he will grow up, yea well wishful thinking. So not going to happen. Well I am going to take a hot bath now that I got the girls settled down and in bed.
2 comments:
Thats Crazy, We are the weekend parents now with M & W but we would still NEVER sugar them all up before giving them back. We only do that when we send them to J's moms...LOL :)
LOL yea I hear ya. He The girls are the ones that suffer. Cause they can't go to sleep for school the next day. Grrrr he is such a loser .. :(
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